Life ended is unpredictable. You remain single while your friends start to have their own family. It’s inevitable that roles will shift and your friendship will change when your friends get married and begins a new life. However, your friendship doesn’t have to end. When a friend gets married or have a baby, you can choose to embrace the changed relationship and continue to be there for your friend. I guess that’s what I’ve done.
One of my girlfriend got hitched last year that is why I was able to visit Bicol, then early that year another girlfriend give birth to a lovely little boy Jacob and comes December one of our boys had his second baby Boy! See how life can be:)
I’m definitely happy for thier brave decision thou it’s heartbreaking for me. It makes me think of my own future. I even found myself asking the question what’s wrong with me! Like everyone is starting to have their own family and responsibility that would define their own self-worth but as Sunny as I can be and inject myself with my own doze of sunshine attitude I said to myself: I will remain single for now for I have big dreams for my family and myself. I know somewhere or maybe tomorrow will never knew Love department will give its big shot for Sunny:) let’s all cross our fingers.
And I have missed them so much! so we had dinner last night at UCC Coffee Café Glorietta 3 dessert: catching up with our crazy lives.
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Chicken Chile
Garlic Spaghetti: Seafood Risotto: Fried Shrimp curry with Rice
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It's your choice to continue to be there for you friend no matter what life they may take, you need to be patient and supportive: remember that they are adjusting to myriad lifestyle changes and maybe dealing with complicated matters so don’t worry or be offended if they don’t text or call often and when they does let them know you’re happy and excited for his/her new life. Next thing you know you are in a table with good food or a bottle of beer with good old friends sharing life lessons:)
And with the food, we ordered the chicken garlic chili spaghetti, thinking it could bet the taste of jambalaya of Bubba Gump but I was wrong…fail 101 but the seafood risotto was smooth, creamy and not thick and stodgy. The fried shirmp curry with rice was just normal average nothing special..just my two cents:)
Friendship isn't a big thing - it's a million little things
~Unknown~
Life is good!
hi kebler! that's how i felt before din with my friends (who are married na rin). pero when we get to see each other parang kahapon lang magkasama kami. i love that kind of friendship! :)
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DeleteGetting married and work sometimes makes it hard for friends to get again together. Esp pag may anak na. So moments like this a worth the time.. Having a good laugh about the past.
ReplyDeletedon't worry Sunny, love will
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well as of now none of my friend got married yet,
ReplyDeletebut come to think of it there'll be huge changes
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And you just made the right decision! To be there for your friend and support whatever his or her decisions maybe. Napakapostive mo sa buhay! Keep it up! :)
ReplyDeleteLovely post abput friendship, been dealing hard issues with my friends right now and this, this somehow made me realized the importance of friendship:)
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Boom! I like ur own doze of sunshine attitude. This is really true and inspiring thoughts about friendship. Thanks for sharing Ms. Sunny :D
ReplyDeleteI miss your post sis. Super nakakagood vibes :-D anyway..tama ka as the time goes by madaming changes ang mangyayari sa buhay ng mga friends natin which will make it much difficult to find time to see each other patience lang ang kelangan and understanding.
ReplyDeleteI love hanging around with my friends too! who doesn't? hehehehe
ReplyDeleteFriendship doesn't have to end just because someone decided to settle down. It's a part of life. Although I do understand the sadness you are feeling since I am also single and not bound to be married any time soon. I do miss the times I can hang out with my friends whenever we want, but hey, I get to see them once in a while and for me, that's enough :)
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ReplyDeleteit the journey of life haha, i'm newly married i can only hope my friends dont feel so much changes haha
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as the saying goes.. change is the only constant thing in this world. learning to adapt is the key. so far so good, sunny! at least you're keeping your friendship with them despite the changes :)
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I feel like almost everyone is getting married or having a baby, haha. While I'm not ready for that yet either, it is nice sharing the experiences with all of them :)
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Always happy to see friends having a good time. Very nice photos.
ReplyDeletemost of my friends are married & have their children already and when i went back for a month vacation last year I end up staying at home most of the time because they're not available unlike before but im happy seeing them with their own families though :)
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