Life ended is unpredictable. You remain single while your friends start to have their own family. It’s inevitable that roles will shift and your friendship will change when your friends get married and begins a new life. However, your friendship doesn’t have to end. When a friend gets married or have a baby, you can choose to embrace the changed relationship and continue to be there for your friend. I guess that’s what I’ve done.
One of my girlfriend got hitched last year that is why I was able to visit Bicol, then early that year another girlfriend give birth to a lovely little boy Jacob and comes December one of our boys had his second baby Boy! See how life can be:)
I’m definitely happy for thier brave decision thou it’s heartbreaking for me. It makes me think of my own future. I even found myself asking the question what’s wrong with me! Like everyone is starting to have their own family and responsibility that would define their own self-worth but as Sunny as I can be and inject myself with my own doze of sunshine attitude I said to myself: I will remain single for now for I have big dreams for my family and myself. I know somewhere or maybe tomorrow will never knew Love department will give its big shot for Sunny:) let’s all cross our fingers.
And I have missed them so much! so we had dinner last night at UCC Coffee Café Glorietta 3 dessert: catching up with our crazy lives.
Chicken Chile Garlic Spaghetti: Seafood Risotto: Fried Shrimp curry with Rice
|Top: Folded and Hang jeans: Mango doll shoes: Deflex from Payless|
It's your choice to continue to be there for you friend no matter what life they may take, you need to be patient and supportive: remember that they are adjusting to myriad lifestyle changes and maybe dealing with complicated matters so don’t worry or be offended if they don’t text or call often and when they does let them know you’re happy and excited for his/her new life. Next thing you know you are in a table with good food or a bottle of beer with good old friends sharing life lessons:)
And with the food, we ordered the chicken garlic chili spaghetti, thinking it could bet the taste of jambalaya of Bubba Gump but I was wrong…fail 101 but the seafood risotto was smooth, creamy and not thick and stodgy. The fried shirmp curry with rice was just normal average nothing special..just my two cents:)
Friendship isn't a big thing - it's a million little things
Life is good!