I have spent a significant portion of my life watching sappy romantic movies with ideal couple with guaranteed happy ending is such magical thou expected. I know this is terrible but there is something about them that just seem slightly attainable and relatable to our own life. Not all of us have been assigned a Mcdreamy in this lifetime. Yes! I still have a huge crush with Derek Christopher Shepher of Grey's Anatomy. I’m sorry guys.
So you’re single because you’re single. It’s not because you weird, fat or you dress like out of nowhere or it’s not because you did not promptly follow the love chain letter instructions that you have to send it to 20 people close to you.
You’re not single because your standards are way too high. It’s good to have standard at least you know what you like.
You’re not single because you did not learn enough from your past relationship or go out on a Friday night after work and have a bottle of beers with your guy office mates instead you stay home, shower have a glass of wine and read your favorite book. You’re not single because something is wrong with you.
You are single because you are single. Simple as that. You haven’t made the connection with another heart. Don’t lose your faith in love rather perceived it as a temporary phase. You should feel lucky!
It’s time for you to focus on your personal growth, your passions, your work, friends and family. I assure you Love will never run out in your life.
And if you are one of the million people with the feeling of pressure of partnering up, trust the process. The world has its unique way of preparing you and the person you re meant to be with. Have faith and remember there are some things that don’t work that might work with someone else in the future.
There will come a time you’ll meet that special one and you’ll have to give up some of this single freedom and start being more thankful.
Goodluck to your fairy tale:)
Life is Good!